Often times the reasons a spouse carries on an extramarital affair has nothing to do with the status of their current relationship. For many a cheating spouse it comes down to the joy of living on the edge.

 In 1977 Sir Edmund Hillary, the first man to successfully scale Mt Everest, had this to say about climbing, “I’ve always hated the danger part of climbing, and it’s great to come down again because it’s safe.” He continued, “It’s the intense effort, the giving of everything you’ve got. It’s really a very pleasant sensation.” Many a cheating spouse would agree with Sir Edmund on the intense effort and the giving of everything they’ve got. As for being of the same mindset when it comes to hating the danger? Probably not.

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Any relationship is bound to have its share of arguments. That’s life. However when one spouse is cheating, these arguments can sometimes increase in frequency and intensity. There maybe a couple of reasons for this.

Every marriage contains its share of ups and downs. Let’s face it. Two people living under the same roof sharing and learning the most intimate details about each other often takes superhuman effort. Whether both personalities are strong or one is more dominant than the other is beside the point. Constant contact has the ability to create an environment that in one minute is love personified and in the next tension filled to the point of unbearable.

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It requires a definite quantity of ingenuity to carry on an affair. For this reason you must be very careful to ensure that same ingenuity does not brand you as the heavy.

It started with the funny looks. You would catch your spouse staring at you sometimes in a way that was not only unfamiliar but downright uncomfortable.

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It requires a definite quantity of ingenuity to carry on an affair. For this reason you must be very careful to ensure that same ingenuity does not brand you as the heavy.

It started with the funny looks. You would catch your spouse staring at you sometimes in a way that was not only unfamiliar but downright uncomfortable.

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