Marriage counseling, relationship coaching, divorce, just wait and see?  With so many opinions and services available, how do you decide on the best option for your troubled marriage?  What do you do if your spouse won’t attend counseling?  How can coaching help if your partner is the problem?  These 6 questions will help you to sort it out.

Marriage counseling, relationship coaching, divorce, just wait and see?  With so many opinions and services available, how do you decide on the best option for your troubled marriage?  What do you do if your spouse won’t attend counseling?  How can coaching help if your partner is the problem?  These 6 questions will help you to sort it out.

One of the biggest myths of our generation is that “love will keep us together,” as popularized by pop singers The Captain and Tenille, among others.  Keeping a relationship healthy requires effective effort.  A professional relationship coach shares his advice for couples who want to make sure their relationship keeps going well.

Have people told you “You’re just like your mother?” or “You’re just like your father?” We all have parents, but the personas we’ve grown since our birth is ours alone and deserves full attention. Discovering your individuality might be the main fallout from your divorce.

What made you the individual you have become today? Was it your parents? Was it the environment? What about your school teachers, your church? This topic is debated frequently. You will more than likely see influences from each of these inside your Self. Remember this: no matter where it came from, your individuality is yours to cherish, hold and enjoy.

How can you tell your spouse that there are problems in the marriage without making the problems even bigger?

You love your spouse, but your relationship is not the way you want it to be.  How can you tell your spouse without making things worse?  Some people are so afraid of upsetting their spouse that they suffer for years in silence.  Ironically, sometimes both partners suffer in silence over the same problem, only to find out years later when the silence is finally broken.  The time of longsuffering relationships is over and couples are realizing that without open discussion, their relationship will be dead in the water.  All the same, communication is both a skill and an art.–one that many couples don’t have in proportion to their need.

A duo shall seek couple counseling. Expert counseling can help sort out troubles that hamper a successful marriage.

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Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married?  Have you and your spouse become little more than roommates?

Are you married, but wishing your relationship was more like it was before you were married?   You are not alone.   When a relationship starts out, both men and women are interested in making a good impression, getting a positive response, having a good time, and increasing intimacy.   The relationship feels exciting, the lover appears like the perfect match, and the desire to commit to each other is high.

Your suspicions that your spouse is cheating are getting stronger. The problem is there’s no evidence to back up those suspicions. None as far as you can see.  

Unfortunately you have a bad feeling that your spouse maybe cheating on you. There’s just one problem.  You have no evidence.

Yes your instincts are telling you something is wrong but there is nothing really to back it up. All the physical signs of an extramarital affair that you’ve read and heard about don’t exist. There has been no change in the marriage relationship. Anything that seems out of place has been easily explained. Sometimes before you can even confront your spouse, you provide the answer to your own concerns in such detail that you feel it would be ludicrous to go any further.

Whether your marriage is headed for divorce, or the two of you are ready to seek professional help, there is one thing YOU can do that may have a significant impact on your marriage, and the way that your spouse perceives you. Here’s how…

I receive emails daily from people who ask me for advice, people who share their comments about articles I’ve written over the years and sometimes, I receive emails from people criticizing my point of view.Husband and wife arguing

All of which I am perfectly fine with.

On the home page of my website I have a quote saying “Over 60% of re-marriages end in re-divorce.” I frequently get asked, “Why is the divorce rate higher?” Let’s talk about why…

On the home page of my website I have a quote saying “Over 60% of re-marriages end in re-divorce.” I frequently get asked, “Why is the divorce rate higher?” People state confusion over this because they believe that since they’ve been divorced once before, they’ll know the danger signs to look for and they are more determined to have what they call a “successful” marriage.

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