How can you tell your spouse that there are problems in the marriage without making the problems even bigger?

You love your spouse, but your relationship is not the way you want it to be.  How can you tell your spouse without making things worse?  Some people are so afraid of upsetting their spouse that they suffer for years in silence.  Ironically, sometimes both partners suffer in silence over the same problem, only to find out years later when the silence is finally broken.  The time of longsuffering relationships is over and couples are realizing that without open discussion, their relationship will be dead in the water.  All the same, communication is both a skill and an art.–one that many couples don’t have in proportion to their need.

Share This

A relationship coach tells what you should (and should not) do if you are not #1 or even #2 in your partner’s life.

Do you sometimes feel that you are really low on your partner’s priority list?  Do you feel put aside in favor of the television, computer, friends, family, your partner’s job, or even sleep?  When you were dating, you felt so special and now you are not sure if you are special anymore, just a convenience, or not even that.

Relationship coaches advise men and women to avoid these three mistaken approaches that people take to regain their partner’s attention:

Share This

If you’re still suffering from a breakup: - You’re thinking about it and about him all the time - You love your ex so much it’s “driving you crazy” You Can Make Up With YOUR Ex - even after a nasty breakup and even if it seems impossible. There is hope… Most relationships CAN be saved. There IS A Surprisingly Simple Way To Get Your Ex Back!

Are you suffering from a breakup with your Ex?

Do you think about him all the time?

You love your ex so much that it’s “driving you crazy” and you’re losing sleep and have no appetite.

Share This

Are you relying on your husband’s reaction or his anticipated reaction to make your life decisions?  Doing so may actually be doing more harm than good.

One of the reasons that wives hesitate to try new things in their relationship is for fear of how their husbands will react.  If they do something and their husbands get upset, they conclude they did the wrong thing.  If their husbands are pleased they believe they are doing the right thing.  In many marriages, following this pattern will lead to relationship failure.  A husband’s anticipated reaction to a new idea or a new change is not a good way to tell if that idea or change would be beneficial.

Share This

Did you know that there is an invisible partner in your relationships? A partner who has more influence on you than your significant other? A partner who influences how you treat your significant other and why you find yourselves drifting apart or yelling at each other?

Did you know that there are always 4 people in a relationship, not just the usual two? Knowing this can help you understand a lot about relationships:?   why you have those brief, frustrating, and dead-end relationships?   how a great relationship can, without apparent cause, suddenly turn into such a downer?   why it’s so difficult to talk with someone even though they seem wonderful?   why it’s so difficult to have a meaningful conversation with your significant other?   why asking someone for a date requires so much courage.

Share This